A love story…

The young couple had waited for this day so eagerly, so that they could finally be together, intimately, and be accepted as Holy and pure before men and before the Lord. He had watched her bloom, from her tender age, always hard working, ever dutiful and when he informed his father, he had noticed the… Continue reading A love story…


Greedy doctors you call us

This CBA business has been going on long enough for the common Mwananchi to at least look at the document and know what it's all about. But how would you know if the content is not shared with you.  Well...what's so greedy about asking for proper Sanitary equipment? About asking for laryngoscopes and otoscopes and… Continue reading Greedy doctors you call us





Every time a pastor is preaching about the Proverbs 31 woman, every man, even those who are still growing in their mother’s wombs stand still to listen. These young unborn men throw their kicks in agreement that every born again man deserves a Proverbs 31 kind of woman. Grown up men yearn to go home and find this woman who is of much more worth than rubies or the most expensive garment in their wardrobe. Those seeking to marry fast and pray like never before seeking the Holy Spirit to guide them as they “find” her. After all, it’s not good for a man to be alone and whoever finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from God.

Where I come from, Proverbs 31 woman is referred to as “MUTUMIA NGATHA”. She is described as a woman who wakes up very early in the morning to prepare…

View original post 1,030 more words


Are You ‘SEXmatized’?

This is more than anything I could write for now. It literally literally captures it all

Miss T. N. king

Are you easily controlled by sex or are you easily in control of sex? Every day I see a growing amount of men and women becoming controlled by sex or “sexmatized”–the state of letting sex or the idea of having it control your life through your decisions, emotions & standards. Most people have been sexmatized at least once in their life. Below are some common, but not all, sexmatized symptoms:
1. If you’ve stayed in an expired or loveless relationship/situationship just because “the sex was good” or you’re sexually attached to that man.
Common Thoughts: “I can’t leave him, the sex is way too good. I’m not going to let that go for another woman to enjoy!” or “I lost my virginity to him, I’m attached and can’t leave him.”
2. A lot of women think they can change who a man is or what his intentions are by having…

View original post 1,468 more words


The Power in Telling a Man ‘NO’

Miss T. N. king

“NO” is one of the most powerful, yet underused words in the dictionary.  Perhaps you were once like me, a “yes woman”.  You go out your way to make others happy; you’re overly accommodating.  Sometimes you find yourself biting off more than you can chew.  You try to please everyone, even at the risk of inconveniencing yourself.  You prove your loyalty and support by always being there and saying “yes”.   You rarely say NO and the few times you say it, it would always be followed by the word “but”.  “No, BUT…*insert another way to overextend yourself*.”
I don’t know about you, but it seemed like the more I said “yes”, the more I was taken for granted.  I turned into a doormat.  I felt powerless and unappreciated.  I went from being the priority to the option.  I was served grade A shit on a…

View original post 1,417 more words


An Open Letter To The Friends I Lost Along The Way


To all my old friends,

There are days it strikes me as so strange that I don’t talk to you anymore. There are moments when something reminds me of you and I want to let you know, but so much time has passed that contacting you would be weird.

Look at how far we’ve come since those younger carefree days. The real question is, how did we end up here? How did we go from being best friends to practically strangers?

Back when we were friends, I never dreamed there would come a time you would not be in my life. I never meant to lose you, but it just kind of happened. Choices were made that led us both in different directions and now you’re gone. Some of these choices may have been conscious decisions to let go of our friendship and others may have led to our…

View original post 581 more words

Christian · My Purity Journey · Outflow from my heart · Relationships and Love · Uncategorized

a day at a time

When I started my purity journey, the last few times, it was hard, Goodness! It was difficult, but nothing quite prepared me for this. No. The value systems haven't changed, and the Why, though redefined, remains almost the same. But somehow this time its different. There's no countdown, it just is. For years, intimacy for me… Continue reading a day at a time